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RITUALS & RITUAL PREPARATION




RITUALS & RITUAL PREPARATION
By ChildrenOfRa.org

AVOID INTERRUPTIONS

  • Avoid interruptions during a religious or magical rite. Take the phone off the hook, lock the doors, post a "do not disturb" notice. Depending on how your animals and/or children react to ritual, you may have to make other arrangements for them during this time. However, remember that an interruption will not ruin your ritual unless you let it. In fact, our church was named by an "interruption" who stopped by without knowing that we were in the middle of a ritual and ended up an uninvolved observer (and dog sitter). For circumstances like this, it helps to develop a psychic pause button.


  • RITUAL BATH

  • Whenever possible a ritual bath (or jacuzzi!) is beneficial to wash away everyday tensions before entering sacred space. In addition to being a spiritually as well as physically cleansing event, immersion in water links us with our most primal memories. If you don't have access to water, you can use incense, or a bell, or few minutes of light drumming or meditation for the same cleansing effect. The goal is to enter the circle with a clear mind and an untroubled heart; you're trying to meet your friends (including Deity) on a higher/deeper level than in day-to-day life.


  • RITUAL DRESS OR UNDRESS

  • Ritual dress can range from ritual nudity (skyclad), to formal hooded robes in colors appropriate to the ritual, to whatever you feel most comfortable in. In our group, we usually opt for the latter; most traditional groups I've visited work robed. Many English-based traditions work skyclad, as do many solitaries.


  • For those inclined, physical nudity symbolizes honesty, openness and intimacy, as well as the freedom from slavery mentioned in the Charge of the Goddess. Personally, I find spiritual and mental "nudity" an even more intimate goal for group practice.

    In addition to ritual dress (or undress), ritual jewelry such as pentagrams, amulets, good luck charms and Deity images are often worn. While these are symbolically useful, remember that your power, luck, and connection with Deity is within yourself, not the jewelry. Losing an item, while emotionally painful, should not be spiritually devastating.

    SOLITARY OR GROUP RITUALS

  • Are you interested in solitary or group practice? Actually, this is almost an immaterial question since this is a book of how our group practices, and we all practice solo at one time or another anyway - like when a rainbow appears while driving home on that last day before a long vacation, or that brilliant Full Moon slips through the clouds and into your bedroom window.


  • Obviously, we enjoy group practice - the presence of like-minded friends can enrich your spiritual experience - but there are a few caveats. First, the presence of others can be inhibiting, so try to concentrate more on your spiritual communion with Deity and your circle-mates than whether you are "acting weird." Also, beware of a love interest who takes an interest only because you do. Conversely, beware of becoming interested in someone solely because they share your spiritual beliefs. Finally, working in a group may lead you to start feeling that your solo work is inferior or wrong, but nothing could be further from the truth, as long as what you do alone works for you. What works is what is right, and vice versa.

    ALTAR PREPARATION

  • An important part of ritual preparation is setting up the working altar. This physically prepares the area to become sacred space while simultaneously psychologically preparing the participants to enter that space. In addition to our standard tools (candles, incense burners, knives, wands, God and Goddess statutes, a chalice, a plate and a peace pipe), we add photos and/or artifacts of missing circle-mates and other loved ones as well as any jewelry, amulets and artwork we wish to bless.


  • RITUAL ACTIVITY

  • The actual ritual activity is the least dogmatic and most spontaneous portion of all and is up to however the group feels on that occasion. Sometimes we just meditate together; sometimes we have extremely energetic drum circles. Occasionally we formally invoke the God and/or Goddess; we almost always do magic. While our primary tool is music - both pre-recorded and live - the selections and the order change from ritual to ritual, depending on our goals and moods (and sometimes on which tapes we can find!).


  • The timing of rituals is also up to the group. Traditional circles practice together on Full and/or New Moons, the Solstices and Equinoxes, and the cross-quarter days (midway between the Solstice and Equinoxes). The Solar rituals are known as Sabbats; the Lunar, Esbats or Moons. Traditional Moons usually include invoking the presence of Deity for communication and doing magical work; the eight Sabbats are more a celebration of the Turning of the Wheel of the Year than magical work, and often include a potluck feast. Moons are usually held at night - preferable at moonrise - while Sabbats usually begin during daylight and sometimes last until the following dawn.


  • Church of Amazement ritual times (like our rituals themselves) tend to be very untraditional. If part of the group happens to be together and in the mood for ritual, we will have one. In general we try to plan rituals close to the actual Esbats and Sabbats, but due to varying work schedules, we have to stay flexible. The hour usually depends on who gets off work latest that day - we occasionally end up starting at the "traditional" witching hour of midnight (which is far later than the traditional groups I have visited start). We also call for a ritual when anyone in the group has a particular magical request, like healing or a job search.

    As an auxiliary note to time spent together in ritual, I should mention that our group also tries to spend some quality time together outside of ritual. We consider each other family and therefore share important times other than ritual with each other. Often a few of us will get together and share a new movie or a special music store or bookstore, and we try to attend local Pagan gatherings as a group. As in any good relationship, circle siblings should be friends first and foremost, no matter what else they become to each other.

    GROUNDING RESIDUAL ENERGY

  • At the end of ritual, residual energy usually rushes around within you and the circle. This should be grounded, or re-programmed to fit smoothly into your normal energy scheme. One way of doing this involves actually touching the ground and visualizing the energy returning to the Earth. A complementary method is the ritual sharing of food and drink. Eating kicks your body into a (literally) down-to-earth mode. In addition, sharing a meal provides communion among group members, especially when blessings are passing along with the plate and cup. To expand this ritual sharing to include all four basic elements, you can pass around a peace pipe as well to represent air and fire. Within our group, we call this the Elemental Feast.


  • OPENING THE CIRCLE

  • Once the power has been grounded, it is important to return the ritual area to its normal state as well. Before disassembling the working altar, the circle should be opened or "uncast". Instead of dispersing the energy and breaking the circle, we ground it by visualizing it sinking into the floor beneath us while saying:
      As the circle sinks into the earth
      Merry meet, and merry part, and merry meet again





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